In a fast-paced world, your body needs you to slow down.

Your body is whispering 🌬️through the overwhelm of stress, pressure and perfectionism.

Your potential may be hidden🔍beneath cycles of self-sabotage, escapism, avoidance and existential dissatisfaction. We can rewrite your story by🧵untangling the threads 🪡of your identity and unravelling the stories that have shaped you. 🌀We can listen to the wisdom of your body. But first: FIND YOURSELF 🔍 DISPEL SHAME🪄EMBODY CHANGE🫂 INTEGRATE POWER 💥
Trust Yourself. If you’re sitting with the big questions of life - who am I? - is this all there is? - what’s the point? - why am I here? - how did I get here?  You aren’t alone. We’ll explore your inner depths together to learn the language of your body and listen to the wisdom within. You deserve to love yourself as you are.

Practical Support for Radical Change

I've taken the guess work out of healing.

Bethany Zelent

Internationally Registered Counsellor

Bringing nearly 10 years of depth psychotherapy experience🌊, I offer a comprehensive counseling approach integrating evidence-based methods 🔬with intuitive inquiry🔮. Informed by a Masters in Counseling Psychology and over 8 post-graduate certificates, 🎓I've meticulously crafted the Spiral Self Method 🌀- a structured approach to healing. Through extensive academic education and transformational experiences, I guide others to 🔎find themselves, 🪄dispel shame, 🫂embody change, and 💥integrate power. I offer practical counselling for radical change🫵 to interrupt patterns with compassion 🧡and activate your potential.👑

There are many paths👣 to transformation.

The Spiral Self Method 🌀 is infused in each offering so you can get the same high-impact change with the commitment🕰️that's right for you.

  • Workbooks

    Take healing into your own hands 🫴Worksheets, workbooks and journal prompts are for you to integrate change into you everyday - after all, change happens incrementally.

  • Courses

    High Impact - Low Commitment💻Demystify healing with the practical support of online courses offering step-by-step guidance for incremental change.

  • Counselling

    Rediscover Your Self 🪴in remote sessions. You'll find a haven for self-reflection in structured 1:1 sessions: we focus on you finding & becoming yourself.

  • Clinical Supervision

    Enhance your practice with reflective clinical supervision. 🔎Tailored for integrative counsellors & psychotherapists, these sessions offer support, insight, and growth.

  • Community

    Join the virtual community 🫂for daily, weekly, and monthly check-ins to foster authentic living and leave behind limiting expectations. Embrace genuine connection and support on your journey.

Welcome to a space of compassionate support for transformational change. 🪺

Here you'll find the inspiration and community to navigate life's challenges 🌧️and discover your inner strength. 🌬️ Explore the resources, events, and community connections to embark on your journey of healing and growth.🌈

You deserve to be the expert in your own life.🧐

And also, you're here for a reason. 🤔There's something you can't figure out on your own. You have all the answers within you🧩 - we just need to learn the language of your Body🫂to interpret the wisdom you already hold.💡My work in courses, counselling and community is always based upon these principles ⚖️

  • TRAUMA INFORMED ⚓️ creating safety by building trust through transparency

  • SOMATIC NARRATIVE 🧵 connect past experiences with present circumstances to identify & interrupt pattern repetition

  • EXISTENTIAL ⏳ identify your needs of purpose, belonging & meaning to live with Inner Consent

  • HOLISTIC🔮connect to the unseen, somatic experiences through guided ritual & meditation

  • SOLUTION-FOCUSED 🧩focus on tangible practices to bring change into everyday

This is why I love what I do.

I value my clients’ experience more than the letters behind my name. 🎓Their empowered path to transformation, healing and growth can be yours. 👣

“Bethany creates an instantaneous safe space and gave me the language to talk about something I didn't even understand myself.”

“After just one session with Bethany, I feel so light and ready to set my own boundaries. Our session freed me up of so much I was carrying.”

“I'm so grateful for guides like Bethany. I can't stop thinking about how powerful her courses are. She offers so much insight to reflect on.”

“I've never done any healing work before and going through Bethany's courses are welcoming and easy. She gave me such good understanding of myself, to see myself in a new light.”

“Working with Bethany in any capacity is transformative. She has the balance of being tangible and in-depth. I'm a better version of myself now.”

“Bethany offers insight that allow me to come to realizations I never could have otherwise. I accept myself now more than I ever thought I could. ”

“Receiving therapy from Bethanyhas been a revelatory, exciting, & self-affirming experience. ”

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Navigate the complexities & celebrate the power of living authentically

"Becoming Yourself" is a transformative blog dedicated to identity development and living authentically. Explore insightful articles and resources aimed at guiding you on your journey toward embracing your true self. 

From self-discovery to cultivating authenticity, discover practical tips and inspiring stories to support your path to becoming the most authentic version of yourself. 

Free subscriptions gives you access to weekly posts, empowering insights and practical guidance on embracing your true self and living authentically.

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You aren't the problem. ❌

The work I do isn’t about fixing you 🔧because you were never broken.🩹

Our work together is about creating space for the fullness of your authenticity, 🪞to radically accept who and how you are naturally without the emotional contortions ⚔️of people-pleasing, perfectionism and self-sabotage. By bridging the spiritual 🔮 and psychological🧠, we discover together your Truest Self to expand and embody your potential and step into an authentic, value-based life⚖️.

Counselling in UK, Europe, Canada & US

🔐Unlock and transform your true, authentic self to discover your identity and purpose with existential healing

Discover transformative counselling🔎 to reclaim your life from pressure and dissatisfaction.💎 With nearly a decade of depth psychotherapy experience, I integrate evidence-based practices🔬 with intuitive inquiry🔮, specializing in trauma-informed, existential, and psychospiritual approaches.⏳ Through the Spiral Self Method, 🌀we explore life's essential questions, fostering self-compassion and radical change.🪞
Spiral Self Healing Method


I believe trust is earned through transparency. I've worked hard to learn be soft. Here's how:

  • Masters in Counselling Psychology

  • Inherited Family Trauma Certificate

  • Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapy Certificate

  • Training in Existential Analysis

  • Ayurvedic Yoga Teacher Certificate

  • Reiki Master Certificate

Transform with me.

Your becoming happens here. This is an invitation to map your inner world 🗺, to explore the depths of your psyche and you have the sovereignty to decline that invitation. I know that life is very generous and will keep extending you invitations 💌 to show up as your authentic Self. You can say YES to yourself.

I want you to trust yourself.

I want to equip you to respond to life’s ebbs and flows with self-compassion.

  • Softness

    I want to know how & when your body feels safe to trust & enjoy the goodness in your life.😌 Who would you be if you could turn the volume down on your inner critic & instead honour your existence as it is, in reality?

  • Desire

    I want to know what you crave, what you like & don’t like - I want you to give voice to that which you desire. 🤩 Who would you be if you trusted, instead of feared, the rising heat of desire through your core?

  • Authenticity

    I want to know the essence of your truest self - who you were before you were conditioned to NOT be your Self. 😇How much energy, trust, joy would you realize if you allowed performance, perfectionism & people-pleasing fall by the wayside?

  • Healing

    I want to know how your capacity would shift if you actually honoured your pain & took your traumas seriously, instead of pretending you’re unaffected.🥹 What would change if you allowed yourself to be the imperfect human you are, without judgement - if you could accept yourself as you are instead of who you could be?

  • Freedom

    I want to know the life you would create, the life you crave - if money & time were not barriers. ✌️ What would get you out of bed in the morning if you didn’t have obligations? Is it possible to live fully free of obligation?

  • Responsibility

    I want to know the you would you be if you internalized your own authority & took yourself seriously as the sovereign of your inner world.💪 How would your life change if you stopped waiting for permission to live your life as yours?

Unlock Your Potential🔓

Expertly Crafted Workbooks Designed for Healing and Self-Discovery

Discover a wealth of transformative resources🔎 in my collection of digital downloads and workbooks. Dive deep🌊 into self-exploration, healing, and personal growth with these expertly curated materials designed to empower your journey. Whether you're seeking tools🔧 for self-discovery, coping strategies for managing stress, or guidance on your healing path, there's have something for everyone.🫵 Explore the selection today and take the first step towards a more fulfilling life.👣


  • What is the right route for me?

    Choosing between courses, counseling, or joining a virtual community depends on your goals. Courses offer structured learning, counseling provides personalized support, and a virtual community offers connection and growth opportunities. Consider your needs and where you'll receive the most benefit and support on your journey.

  • What can I expect?

    In each Thrive offering, you can expect comprehensive worksheets and engaging step-by-step guidance tailored to your journey. Each resource is designed to support your growth and provide actionable steps towards your goals.

  • How else can I get support?

    You can access support through my on-demand workbooks, online courses, counseling sessions, and virtual community membership, providing a comprehensive range of resources tailored to your needs and preferences.

  • How can I stay connected?

    Follow me on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube! Send me an email [email protected]! Subscribe to the blog, Becoming Yourself, with the link below!

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